For students who receive acceptance letters from multiple schools, the final decision often requires extensive research and careful consideration. The deadline to respond to schools is usually May 1st each year. Below are 10 ways parents can support their children in the decision-making process.
Don’t pressure your child into choosing a specific school
Choosing a school can be both exciting and stressful for some students. Therefore, parents should try to empathize rather than add pressure by insisting their child choose a school that aligns with their personal preferences. It’s important for parents to be open and let their child know that they are willing to help, but the final decision is entirely theirs.
Don’t compare your child to others
Having a child accepted into prestigious universities is always a source of pride for parents. However, it’s important to remember that this is a result of their hard work and dedication, not an opportunity to impress friends and relatives. Although this may be easier said than done, parents should avoid comparing their child to others, even if they receive rejection letters from target schools. Such comparisons only add pressure to their final decision. Remember, every child is unique, with their own passions and interests.
Compare different financial aid packages
University tuition is often a significant expense for most families. Typically, schools will include a financial aid or scholarship package (if available) with the acceptance letter, so students know the actual cost they will need to pay for four years of university. Parents and their children can sit down together to weigh the different financial aid packages. These letters usually outline costs for the first year only, so families may want to inquire about factors like annual tuition increases to make more informed decisions for the full four years.
Discuss the costs of attending university in detail
After considering financial aid, families can have more detailed discussions about other expenses associated with attending a particular school. Parents should be honest and specific when talking with their children about university costs. It’s best for parents and children to create a spreadsheet to compare the costs between schools, giving them the clearest perspective possible.
Evaluate academic opportunities
Students usually research schools before applying. However, parents, with their own experiences, can also gather information to help their children choose a school. By evaluating academic opportunities like majors, minors, faculty, or research opportunities, parents can support their child in making the right school choice.
Explore post-graduation outcomes
Families can research to determine if a school will provide a good launching pad for their child’s future career. Important information to consider includes internship opportunities, post-graduation employment rates, or the starting salaries of recent graduates. If your child plans to pursue graduate studies, then data on the outcomes of graduate program alumni is also crucial. These details are often available on the school’s website.
Discuss the school’s location
Some students prefer attending schools close to home, within the state, to take advantage of in-state tuition benefits. Others are eager to experience different environments as they grow. According to a 2016 survey by the American Council on Education, most first-year students choose schools within 50 miles of home. Especially in the context of COVID-19, the school’s location has become a significant factor for students and families.
Focus on finding the right fit
“Fit” includes many factors, such as academic offerings, extracurricular activities, and the school’s culture. Parents can encourage students to consider these factors in their decision-making process.
Visit the university campus again – or take a virtual tour
Many schools host on-campus events for newly admitted students. These events often provide students with additional experiences, especially for those who are undecided about their major. Given the current pandemic situation, students can opt to take virtual tours instead.
Don’t pressure your child about making a decision
Don’t constantly ask your child about which university they’ve decided to attend, as this will only add more pressure. However, parents should be mindful of the deadline for responding to schools. Families can choose a specific day of the week to sit down with their child and discuss the school decision. This can be a valuable time for the family to talk about the strengths and weaknesses of each school.
